
Ramsey - 21 Nov 2009
What does that really imply anyway? A higher power has decided that this is my destiny? All the signs are pointing to yes? Maybe, maybe not. Signs may be pointing, but where this falls down for me is understanding what they are pointing toward. I don’t know what “is meant to be”. All I know is where I am and what I need to deal with today. Things that seemed like signs of destiny a few months ago now feel like blips on a radar- worthy of note but not necessarily worth veering off course for. Women, in particular, dedicate a shocking amount of time to understanding and interpreting these signs. It is a waste of time. We need to confront who we are, what we want and how we get there. The question isn’t “Is this meant to be?”, the question is “Is this what I want?”. You decide, no one else. That’s a lot of responsibility but it comes with an incredible sense of empowerment. No one else is dictating your future, so you go out there, decide what’s important and create the future you want. Starting today.
Good luck.